Tucked away in northern Cebu is a cozy spot where cowboys go to play. Ironically and much to our appreciation, they teach us to take the “ranch” out of dressing and entertain us to a nourishing meal, country style.
When we think of farms in the Philippines, our minds are grazed by mental images of rice paddies and carabaos. Seldom does a barn with horses register; but to the Jarques, it’s no farm without the handsome steed. Their sprawling three-hectare property in Danao borne from their love of animals has been family tradition for about eight years now.
A good one-hour drive north from Cebu City, the fragrance of napier grass (grown for the horses) mingles with earthy musk in fresh air. Swarmed with ducks, chickens, turkeys, horses, goats and sheep, it’s a farm that would make even Ronald McDonald proud. Patriarch Cisco Jarque spends most of his Sundays tending to the animals. On a regular day, he’d allot three hours for his trip: one hour for travel, one hour to make his rounds, and one hour to head home. “Our children all ride horses.
Paco has been horseback riding since he was four,” Marilen, Cisco’s wife, says of their only son. Family visits to the farm are usually spontaneous. A member would decide to spend the day there and be surprised to see others who’d already arrived earlier, seeking the same therapeutic relaxation only the farm can give them. The bonus, of course, is even more quality time with la familia.
Paco Jarque and wife, Monique Del Gallego Jarque, owners of deli-dessert café, The Pantry, eased open the fences of their country haven and lured us in for a good ol’ southern style luncheon. We bid good riddance to heavily buttered fried chicken and grimy pork and beans and instead worked up an appetite for a de-”light”-ful feast.
by Pia Echevarria
photography Maitina Borromeo
Cebuano Pride: The National Museum of Cebu
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By Eva Gullas
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The Uncommon Traditions that Mexicans and Filipinos share when celebrating the Day of the Dead.
Dia de los Muertos
By Allain Dumon Fonte
The 2nd of November is All Soul’s Day, a holiday that is very important to many Filipinos to remember our loved ones who passed on. This is also widely celebrated in Mexico as “Dia De los Muertos” or in English, “The Day of the Dead”. And Mexicans celebrate the 2nd of November grander than they celebrate Christmas. Well, you can witness it from the Disney movie, “Coco”.
As All Soul’s Day or Dia de los Muertos is about to end, here are some interesting traditions and superstitions that Filipinos and Mexicans share:
1. IT IS NOT ON THE 31st OF OCTOBER
Dia de los Muertos or All Soul’s Day is not practiced on October 31st or on the Hallow’s Eve as many other western cultures practice; but we celebrate it on the 2nd of November. We celebrate November 1st as All Saint’s Day or the Day of the Holy, while in Mexico they call it Dia de los Innocentes or Dia de los Angelitos to commemorate the children who died too early in life.
2. THE RITUAL
Both in Mexico and in the Philippines, we visit the grave of our loved ones and we clean it well. This is a ritual to honour their resting places and to let them know that they are never forgotten.
3. FLOWERS INVITE SPIRITS
In Mexico, they believe that the scent of flowers attract spirits. So the flower offerings are invitation to their dead loved ones to visit the living families. While in the Philippines, we believe that flowers offered to the dead exalt the souls and somehow fill in the sadness that we feel when missing our dead loved ones.
Most of the time, Filipinos choose all-white flowers to offer because white is the absence of colour, which means the absence of Joy and happiness. White also symbolises purity of soul which we hope our dead loved ones will attain as they journey to heaven. While in Mexico, they have the yellow Mexican marigolds as the official flowers of the dead that will guide them in their journey to the afterlife.
4. THE LEGEND OF THE MONARCH BUTTERFLIES
Both cultures believe that monarch butterflies are dead loved ones who visit us and show their appreciation that we have not forgotten them. A presence of monarch butterflies also means that our dead loved ones are always there guiding us and looking after us.
5. A PICNIC IN THE GRAVEYARD
Spending a night at the graveyard and picnicking with the rest of the family may sound very creepy to many; but to both Filipino and Mexican cultures, picnicking and spending a night at the cemetery is a must to show our love to our dearly departed. It is the only time in the year that families gather and tell stories of the dead loved ones and how colourful or how great their lives were.
6. FOOD FOR THE DEAD
In Mexico, they have what they call “ofrendas” or an altar where the pictures of their dead loved ones are displayed and offered with flowers, candles, and their favourite food. Very similar to the Filipino culture of cooking the favourite food of our dead loved ones and everyone in the family enjoys the food for dinner.
My family tradition involves me driving all the way to Colon street and buy that famous Snow Sheen’s “pancit canton”. This is my granddad’s favourite snack. Sadly, the old Visayan Restaurant is no longer there. My late uncle and my late grandpa love their sweet ad and sour fish. We also set up an “ofrenda” on their graveyard and eat their favourite food while picnicking in the cemetery. We do not spend a night in the cemetery; but while we are picnicking there, we usually play the songs of Pilita Corrales and Susan Fuentes that my late grandpa used to listen every afternoon while enjoying his coffee, pan de sal, and pancit canton.
What about your family traditions? Share your thoughts by commenting to this article.
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